Composure And Virtue

Composure is the stability or steadiness of mind in the midst of stress.To be stable simply means to be consistent in your resolves.It is the ability to stand firm or stand up for what you believe in whether the one whom you believe in is around or not,as well as other factors.This is because you are pasuaded first,that such persons would come through.And even if the person doesn't come through,you would still stand your ground without compromising.These are the spices that makes up a good recipe in any long lasting relationships and not the relationship itself.How long are we going to hide under the mask of the word friendship,only for the person to take a leave for the moment,and before the person comes back,the story has changed.The word virtue still exist you know!

Virtue is the quality of doing what is right.The question is where has this word traveled to?This days people would do whatever it takes to get in the way of the next person or even constitute a stumbling block just to make sure such persons doesn't get to the peak.And I wonder where all these are leading to:the love of money,the pride of life,the desire to be famous at all cost even if it means bringing the other person down...It is still a pussle to me!

Sometimes the breakthrough or blessings we are looking for,chasing from pillar to post is just beside/near us,or even in hands of the persons we disdain,look down on,and even fight and make mockery of just because our eyes are fixed on the high and mighty,those we claim to have the highest connections we needed,only for us to go round the circles and find out the blessings was just a little kindness,smile,understanding,goodness extended to someone we least expected.Life will continue to be a mystery!The earlier we stop chasing shadows and focus on the original plan we are made of,the better.The race is not to the swift,neither riches to men of understanding,but time and chance plays a major role.That man,woman,boy,or girl is not the problem.The problem is the virtues that lies within us that we refuse to come alive.

Talking about composure I have heard some people say:that is me ooo,I will say it as it is,point black(bluntly).Yes it's good to be yourself.Yet there's a way we can pass the message across without losing the person.That's why there are various forms of communication.One thing with communication is that you never graduate from it even though there are graduates of communications.I know some people understand communication better the hard way but it should not form the basis for communicating.There's nothing we can't resolve where there is understanding!In fact,your composure in the midst of a tensed atmosphere,tells a lot about the strength of your virtues.Though things go wrong sometimes,but then,there's a way you can make it right! #Composure#Virtue#Faith#Right form of communication#Kindness#Smile#Goodness.