Open Up

How long will you conceal a lot of things while it is eating you up gradually? How long will you freeze in silence while certain events continue to unfold? Are you still going to cover up that unpleasant encounter for ever when you have an option of sharing it with someone who at least you can trust and be free? Are you going to pretend and act like all is well, when there is something bordering you or something you need immediate answers to? Or may be you are searching for the right moment to spill it out? Or perhaps you don't know who to trust anymore as a result of the countless experiences you've been through in the hands of certain persons or people?

Well, these things are natural but sweetheart if you are waiting for the right time, mood, atmosphere, evironment, place, event..., before you let it out, you may never find the ideal moment. However, you can find a suitable moment when you make up your mind to open up at least to someone you can confide in. Study the times, know when to let go the pressure, stress, burden, problem, pain, fears, troubles, need, cares of life..., and be free.

To open up is to talk freely and without suppression. However, to open up in this context, does not suggest fake propaganda or false rumours or hate speeches but a positive feeling that enhances freedom of speech without inhibition, especially when it has to do with sensitive issues bordering someone.

Dear, some people don't really care or give a damm about what you are going through. Neither are they willing to ask you about your welfare. What the majority of the people are after, is their own interest. So if you don't open up when you should to credible people, you may never find the help or support that you desperately needed. I do not mean begging around for no just meaning when one can actually do something to better his/her life. I mean having a just course that needs to be funded, supported, or promoted but for circumstances beyond your control, you don't have the wherewithal to execute it or either you are limited in certain ways.

Don't be shy! Don't suffer in silence when you can make some guided moves. There are people who have what you need to get where you need to be. Be friends with them. Build relationships with such persons. Don't give them the impression that you want to pester them. Just let it flow! Depending on the extent of the relationship, you can now solicit for the help or support of such persons. And if you are turned down, after taking a bold step, don't give up on them, and don't be discouraged as well.

I've had times, when I needed some support even from people I thought would reciprocate, and I was amazed that it was the ones I least expected that encouraged me. I still didn't give up on them but I knew better, and I am still learning. Just to make it plain, there are still people whose favour and support I would still need to get to my next level, hence, I am not too careful to open up when I can and should. #Sensitive issues #Funds #Support #Credible people #Frienship #Build relationship #Open up.