Decide The Pace

To decide is to reach, make, or come to conclusion about something. It also means to make up one's mind or have the power, wherewithal, and what it takes to determine an outcome. On the other hand, pace is the rate of moving, especially walking or running. It can be slow or fast.

In life, the best things are free. There comes a point, stage, level, or height in life when you don't allow circumstances, situations, or events to dictate the pace or run the show. You decide how it should be.

Wherever you find yourself in life, realise you are a pace setter. It is the realisation of this fact that makes you stand out or soar even in the midst of limitations. You have to believe in yourself and in your capabilities just the way you believe in some persons even if others fail or pretend not to acknowledge it. This self realisation, has nothing to do with what you have or what you don't have presently. One can have all that he/she desires, and still don't have a say of their own. While some others may not have all he/she desires, yet are firm, strong and formidable. Dear, if you don't know where to draw the line in your dealings with people, they would dictate the pace for you.

What are you even afraid of in the first place? Is it what others would say about you or think about you or even stop some credits that should accrue to you. Are you considering your present financial state as low, and therefore scared of launching out or venturing? And for some of us, we don't want to appear on the spotlight. We are just satisfied where we are, with people tossing us to and fro at will. Darling, you have to decide what you really want out of life and take the necessary steps or moves against all odds, unless you want to be in perpetual slavery.

Don't be carried away by the outward disposition most of us put up out there. No one has it all together. If some persons who you are thinking are the dawn, told you what they are facing, then you would be thankful where you are as you look forward to greater heights.

Fine, different strokes for different people. We all have different levels in life just the way you have hierarchy in various settings or organization. It is good to know the level you are and where you want to be and align yourself accordingly.

The well to do we know today, all started from somewhere. There were times these personalities didn't have much but yet were determined to be successful. Sure there were days of small beginnings but today if you asked them, such persons would tell you the story is different. You too can, when you make up your mind to set the pace. Here is it: if you cannot soar, run. If you can't run, walk. If you can't walk, crawl. Which ever ways you know best, just decide the pace. #Decision #Conclusion #Determination of an outcome #Pace #Rate of moving #Soar #Run #Walk #Crawl.