Does It Correlate?

So many times we try to hold on tight to certain things, places, people, business, job, relationship, friendship, belief system..., as if our lives depend solely on it. Well I am sorry to burst your bubbles, but I am here to announce to you that some things and what have you, you hold in high esteem or closely, needs some review to check its correlation with your dreams, visions, aspirations, goals, objectives, principles etc.

Let's start this way. That man, woman, boy, girl, friend, well wisher..., you have in your life, where does it fall into in your diary, plans, goals, aspiration, life..., both short term or long term? Does such person's activities, routines, lifestyle, do and don'ts, direction, purpose etc, match in anyways with yours? If the answer is yes, you can hold on to it and manage the relationship, at least deal with the weaknesses. But if it doesn't in anyways correlate, no matter how endeared or hooked up you are to such relationships, it's time to let it go, unless you want to keep hurting and draging backwards. What is the essence of a hurt, if there is no provision for healing. If it hurts me, one way or the other, it should be able to heal me one way or the other, less I call it quit.

Furthermore, that contract, proposal, deal, etc, you are about to sign into or you are already into, ask yourself: is it making me better or worst? Where can I place (rank) it presently? Is it going backwards or moving forward? Has it fared well in the past? Why is it where it is presently? Is there anything I can do to restore its lost glory or boost it up again? Is it ready to adapt to changes, improvements or new developments? Can I take the risk? Does it still care about my aspirations? Is it open minded?

And for the ones I am about to enter into, does it have a promising future? What is its watchword? Do I know some considerable fact about it? Will it block others or future ones from coming my way? Can I handle its strength and weakness? All of these and much more are the basic facts that one has to look out for when one is already in one form of relationship or the other or when one is about to enter such relationships. Failure to ascertain all these, may lead to setback or hasty conclusion that all others are the same, thereby making one stuck in something he/she should get out of should he/she know better.

Sentiments apart! If you have given anything room in your life, watched them closely, tried to figure out their direction, way of life (lifestyle), conduct, etc, matched it with yours, tried possible means within your power to get them on track, and yet it still does not correlate, waste no time further. It's time to take that sensitive decision! Let it go!! #Relationship #Friendship #Work #Business #Belief system #Correlation #Sensitive decision.